"If you are currently in a relationship, or have a past one to look back on, ask yourself this: Would I dare to ask for a favor while my partner is up?…And on the other side, notice your own reaction the next time your partner asks for something while you are up. Do you bristle and feel taken for granted? Or do you say yes because you love this person and genuinely want to help?"

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Anne Hill, in “The Three Most Important Words in Any Relationship”

(via jaclynday:maryanne:peterwknox)

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I read this and was extremely confused and I guess I’m still confused.  I’m always amazed by things that aren’t in the ‘obvious’ category.

Also, I’ve heard the “grab me a beer” statement since I was old enough to walk… and successfully pour the perfect glass.